TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their partners will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a saying which carries the meaning that 'It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character.'
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the partners character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
BE PATIENT
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. Therfore, forgive and forget.
NO POINTING FINGERS & NO CRITICISING
We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
Never criticize your partners. Accept each others flaws.
Tats all for nw. Something that we can remember and learn.
